ecopsychology Counseling and Consulting
Transformative Learning One-on-One Sessions
Blessed are those who soften the emotional rigidity of their hearts,
for they shall have all the power of Nature. ~Jeshua
Our primary focus is learning to align with the evolutionary rhythms of Nature and the "logos" of "home." This adventure is healing, energizing, and restorative for ourselves and our world. Like all living creatures, we intertwine within a vast miraculous web of life. This belonging is sustains us and is full of surprises. If we are awake! Repairing and relaxing into our innate ancient belonging, we confidently move forward to pursue our dreams and unique soul purpose. Ecological dimensions of "home" coalesce into a vibrant & inclusive sense of self capable of creative responses, passionate focus, and abundant joy--even when we are sad.
Sessions with me provide intelligent attentiveness, attunement, and healing of innate ecological belonging.
Covid times we meet online.
Rates are variable and realistic.
Free 20 minute consult, contact me.
Nonviolent Communication Trainings
For the past 13 years, I have been a volunteer in San Quentin teaching weekly Nonviolent Communication classes in our Yearlong Program. Part of BayNVC's Safer Communities Project. As a cohesive team, we have helped transform the culture of San Quentin prison life. I also work with a weekly support group called "Aftercare" or ARC, a weekly support group for addicts committed to sobriety and accountability. My primary focus in San Quentin are paths of accountability that are healing, transformative, and empowering. These practices are also deeply needed by those living outside those walls. I offer skills and practices via NVC that heal all forms broken belonging--within ourselves and our relationships.
Currently all Online.
For couples, individuals, and groups.
Nonviolent Communication is therapeutic AND a skill.
My specialties are accountability and belonging.
Free 20 minute consult, contact me.
12-Step Eco-Recovery Program
Recovering from the Excesses of Modernity & Restoring Innate Ecological Belonging
When looking at our inability to face the ecological consequences of our our lifestyles and change, do you sometimes wonder, "Am I dealing with addiction here?" Addicts usually hit the wall before admitting they are powerless over their addiction. Well? Have you hit the wall yet? I have. I have lots I want to work on.
Please join me for an Eco-Recovery 12-step program, (the first of its kind, as far as I know) where we are each invited to pick ONE expression of addiction to western civilization (plastic? cell phone? late nights? driving? comfort? money? status?) and move through a modified nature-based 12-step program. The 12 steps are a tried and true healing path of accountability. Our healing journey will be fun, tough, profound, and creative. (How will you make amends to the ocean? insects? future generations?)
My work in San Quentin inspires me to convene this group. I observe that most of us are missing out the power and gravitas of accountability. We do not vigorously challenge our negative habits as the #1 job in our lives, nor do most of us openly acknowledge criminal thinking vis-à-vis our ecological family (and future generations). We are missing out! So, let's do this. And let's have fun transmuting complicity into conscious participation, each in our unique way AND with support of our eco-recovery community.
This group has a rolling "admission." Drop in anytime.
EVERY FRIDAY MORNING 10 -11am California time via Zoom.
Donations accepted via paypal, but not required.
Restoring the Dignity of Shame
Monthly Online Trainings
Shame gets a bad rap in today’s world. Is condemnation deserved? Or might shame play a vital healing role in living systems? After working over ten years in San Quentin, I now experience shame as a powerful ally that can support evolutionary change.
Ecopsychologists hold a vision of what is possible for humans. This requires moving through the variegated terrain between “what is” and “what can be.” Like it or not, shame lives in this murky (and surprisingly beautiful) "in-between" liminal territory.
Whether shame becomes a friend or enemy to evolution depends upon our ability to work skillfully and lucidly with this powerful affect.
Curious? Then please attend my monthly online adventures to explore cognitive, somatic, and soulful paths that restore the dignity of this potent and deeply misunderstood affect. We will gain insights and skills that enable shame to play its crucial role in the healing of ourselves, each other, and our beloved world.
Understanding the positive role shame can play within dynamic living systems.
Identifying four common shame avoidance tactics and their root causes.
Developing cognitive, somatic, and spiritual approaches that foster mature and lucid experiences shame.
Knowing better how to respond to unhealthy shame responses.
Gaining psychological clarity and therapeutic skills so shame can play a redemptive role in our lives.
Sunday, July 12th 2020
10am-noon California Time
For zoom link, contact me.
In the Works...
Monthly Meetings for Ecopsychology Practitioners
Training ~ Research ~ Collaboration
In the works: Monthly Ecopsychology Practitioner Meetings covering topics pertinent to our vocation and praxis.
Monthly themes will contextualize our historic moment from an ecopsychological perspective. Fascinating!
Are you interested in an ecologically focused transformative learning community?
Collegial support group?
A context for learning and skill development?
Opportunities to share our work, network, perhaps create projects together?
Here is what I am considering:
First Monday of the Month
6-7:30 pm California Time via Zoom
Once we have 5 participants, let's begin. So, get your posse together!
Classes & Trainings
contact me if interested
Last taught at Osher Lifelong Learning Institute
Cal State Channel Islands
Cultivating Intimacy with Climate Crises
Earth’s climate is vast, complex, and beyond our direct control. However, each of us is a participant within the vast systems of the planet. When we speak of “climate change,” maybe the real change (and challenge) we face is far more intimate, close, and within our control than earth's climate. “Climate” lends an aura of distance and abstraction. Sometimes this distance serves as a buffer, shielding us from the uncomfortable possibility that the real change we face is an “internal climate crisis” involving values, attitude, and the repair of a broken sense of belonging. However, even when we want to shift course or break a habit, we can stay stuck. Why? What are good reasons for resisting change? In this course, we will explore the inner dimensions of our Earth’s climate crisis and how this distressing situation can be an impetus for healing, creativity, and evolution.
View Zoom Recordings at Osher's Website (scroll to Spring 2020, Fridays)
Topic Outline for 7 weeks:
Mapping the Territory of Ecopsychology
Cultivating the Art of Sensitivity
Climate Crisis: A Rite of Passage for Humanity?
The Good Reasons for Bad Habits
Innate Belonging of the Ecological Self
An Evolving Sense of Purpose
Dynamic Sustainability—Within & Without
Emergent Truth in Soulful Times: How do we Face, Speak and Act in Truth in a World of Falsehood and Fear
April 6-7 Earthrise Center, Petaluma
Workshop: “Healing Shame by Cultivating Truth”
Sometimes truth is welcomed. Other times it is hard to swallow, let alone honor or share. Ecological accountability is one of those difficult truths. Even a whiff of blame evokes shame. As the truth of our complicity in causing environmental harm is exposed, tallied, and made clear, we walk deeper and deeper into fields of shame. This is a delicate situation for “truth workers” because wholesome responses to shame are not humanity’s strong suit.
Whether truth is experienced as a battering ram or a place of belonging depends upon our capacity to work insightfully and firmly with shame. In this workshop, we will explore the vital role shame plays in the maintenance, repair, and evolution of complex living systems. This participatory workshop will involve outdoor time in small groups, exploratory improvised theatre, and hopefully a few laughs. Along with belonging and empathy, humor is a time-honored way to mitigate the intensity of shame while still heeding its life-serving purposes.
Workshop: Transpersonal Dimensions of Accountability
Accepting accountability, responsibility, or agency for one’s life and behavior have long been emphasized as essential for psychological health and maturity by schools of psychology and philosophy ranging from existentialism to Buddhism. But accountability is gritty work. Denial, anger, shame, and heartbreak shape the contours of culpability. Might traversing this rugged terrain, where darker aspects of human nature are laid bare, be redeeming—and even transcendent? What are the transpersonal dimensions of accountability?
Twelve years teaching Nonviolent Communication in San Quentin has opened my mind and heart to the higher octaves of accountability. Men serving life sentences must face the Board of Paroles and demonstrate a mature capacity for accountability. Going to the Board is a challenge most of us will not face. So why should accountability matter to us? Tragically, what my students identify as “criminal thinking” is not relegated solely to criminals. Who among us has not been trapped in this kind of mindset, or related dysfunctions, at some point in our lives? From a transpersonal perspective, most of us are caught in a deceptively selfish mindset and dangerously limited sense of self.
Further, in a times ecological reckoning, how we engage accountability determines whether the consequences of our actions happen to us or for us. Having choice in this matter requires a capacity to endure shame in wholesome ways and be available to the transcendent dimensions of accountability.
Let’s turn to look clearly at complicity and culpability. Doing so reveals why this arduous undertaking is necessary and beneficial for all of us. The intention of this interactive presentation is to prepare us, both individually and communally, to forge a transcendent path of ecological accountability willingly, even gladly, and with as much good humor as we can muster.